Perez Hilton.
I have an ongoing argument with myself about why I keep reading his blog. I’ve been reading his blog for so long that I call celebrities by the silly degrading names he gives them:
Mushy Fartone
Eva LongHOria
LezLo (Lohan)
He has a knack for it.
So I found it very interesting that when Chris Brown beat up Rihanna, Perez, through his website, rabidly attacked Chris Brown and anyone who defended him. Perez baptized him with his new name : Chris Beat Her Down. It has made me wonder if he cares that the way he cruelly and gleefully rips into mostly celebrity women criticizing their clothes, weight, breasts, butts, face etc contributes to the attitude that they’re disposable objects. And that it has it’s place in the world of violence towards women.
I agree with him about Chris Brown. And I keep reading his blog even though it makes me feel like a bad person. He quoted Lady Ga Ga saying that she loves him “…because he’s taken something that people don’t think is valid, don’t think is important, and he’s made them obsessed with it.”
I’d agree with that. And I’d add that he posts and updates so consistently that it’s easy to get addicted to the stream of information. Especially one that feeds us such a distinct and emotional opinion.
Reading these funny little posts everyday seems like truth and mostly harmless but personally it feels like I’m less likely to have empathy for people after coming to refer to them as ASSlee Simpson.
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Election Day
So many days have gone by and I haven’t been able to post here. I think I reached a point of emotional exhaustion watching some of these people (erm Palin). It’s been a long and exciting two years. Four years if I count that day in 2004 when I first heard Barack speak and I cried in my bedroom by myself because I had never heard someone call across the country as if speaking to me–as if reassuring me: You’re not alone.
Today is the beginning. Tomorrow we’re going to have a shiny new president.
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David Brooks
I love this anecdote. Link to original article below:
Obama has the great intellect. I was interviewing Obama a couple years ago, and I’m getting nowhere with the interview, it’s late in the night, he’s on the phone, walking off the Senate floor, he’s cranky. Out of the blue I say, ‘Ever read a guy named Reinhold Niebuhr?’ And he says, ‘Yeah.’ So i say, ‘What did Niebuhr mean to you?’ For the next 20 minutes, he gave me a perfect description of Reinhold Niebuhr’s thought, which is a very subtle thought process based on the idea that you have to use power while it corrupts you. And I was dazzled, I felt the tingle up my knee as Chris Matthews would say.
And the other thing that does separate Obama from just a pure intellectual: he has tremendous powers of social perception. And this is why he’s a politician, not an academic. A couple of years ago, I was writing columns attacking the Republican congress for spending too much money. And I throw in a few sentences attacking the Democrats to make myself feel better. And one morning I get an email from Obama saying, ‘David, if you wanna attack us, fine, but you’re only throwing in those sentences to make yourself feel better.’ And it was a perfect description of what was going through my mind. And everybody who knows Obama all have these stories to tell about his capacity for social perception.
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Amen!
from the New Yorker’s Editorial endorsement of Barack Obama:
We cannot expect one man to heal every wound, to solve every major crisis of policy. So much of the Presidency, as they say, is a matter of waking up in the morning and trying to drink from a fire hydrant. In the quiet of the Oval Office, the noise of immediate demands can be deafening. And yet Obama has precisely the temperament to shut out the noise when necessary and concentrate on the essential. The election of Obama—a man of mixed ethnicity, at once comfortable in the world and utterly representative of twenty-first-century America—would, at a stroke, reverse our country’s image abroad and refresh its spirit at home. His ascendance to the Presidency would be a symbolic culmination of the civil- and voting-rights acts of the nineteen-sixties and the century-long struggles for equality that preceded them. It could not help but say something encouraging, even exhilarating, about the country, about its dedication to tolerance and inclusiveness, about its fidelity, after all, to the values it proclaims in its textbooks. At a moment of economic calamity, international perplexity, political failure, and battered morale, America needs both uplift and realism, both change and steadiness. It needs a leader temperamentally, intellectually, and emotionally attuned to the complexities of our troubled globe. That leader’s name is Barack Obama.
—The Editors
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Mint
It’s like we’re living in a Kirk Cameron 80’s movie.
EXT/INT. SUNRISE TEENAGE BOY’S MESSY ROOM
A pair of large socked feet hit a floor strewn with comics, candy wrappers, and video games. We hear the GROANS of a grown man irritated at being roused out of sleep.
O.S. (Woman’s voice)
Joooohn! Cmon you’re going to miss the bus!
CONTINUOUS
We hear a warbled reply as the large feet shuffle onto bathroom tile. CUT TO the bathroom mirror…EEK! John McCain is BLACK!!!!
John
(blood curdling scream)
AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHEEEEEECHHHHHHHHEEEWWWWWWW
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
VOICEOVER
This Fall don’t miss the blockbuster of the year everyone’s going to be watching…
CUT TO EXT. disheveled JOHN MCCAIN in black face stands forlornly at the corner with his lunch box as a broke down Straight Talk Express pulls up in front of him. He looks back at his mom and stares into the abyss when the bus comes to a sighing halt and the doors open.
VOICEOVER
The presidential candidate who once had it all (Karl Rove) wakes up one morning only to find he’s lost everything. Can he find a way back to the promise land as a black man? Will they even let him back into his campaign office? Roger Ebert calls it the tearjerker of the year. This fall get ready to laugh and watch a man who by all accounts SHOULD lose but will probably WIN.
CUT TO
BARACK OBAMA in white face.
BARACK
I’m Barack Obama and I approve this message.
What is going on? What is this country I live in??? And who the heck considers a hockey mom a role model? Anything + sports-related moms is more thank likely to be horrific, blood thirsty, and tribal. I should know: my mom is an insane die-hard Knicks fan that would howl and screech at the top her lungs every second of a game. I don’t want my president to be like that! This is crazy.
from drugrehabvermont.com
The history of Valium is not a long one, only 40 years. During the 1960’s and 1970’s, psychopharmacological medications entered American life. These drugs became known as “Mother’s Little Helpers” because of their alleged ability to “help” or “treat” the pressures of motherhood, single-hood, and other womanly problems.
It blows my mind that anyone beyond a racist conservative out of touch white person would consider this Palin real or all American. Alaskans are weird! I mean I’m sure they’re just like us, just like every human being in the world but, their Alaskans, they live with limited hours of sunlight most of the year, they live amongst ice and extra large insects. It’s not prejudice to think that their perspective is not one that most Americans share.
And she’s their queen! Literally she’s their little beauty queen that likes reading children’s literature as pasttime and shooting large mammals. I’m just flabbergasted. I mean I felt bad for her in that Katie Couric interview. I’m sure I wouldn’t have been able to get through an interview like that unscathed. I would’ve turned red and started screaming…probably would’ve ripped my mic off and stormed away. But you know what? I shouldn’t even be PICTURING myself in that position. Because I’m not qualified to be running for any kind of elected office. So I think she should go back to where she came from and stop distracting us from the fact that we as a country need to come to terms with the fact that the Republicans by serving John McCain to us on a silver garnished platter are BAMBOOZLING us.
from Duct (Tape) and Cover
By Paul Boyer
Suddenly, it’s 1955, or 1961, or perhaps 1982. Our current obsession with bottled water, spare blankets, fresh batteries, duct tape, and plastic sheeting triggers weird memories of “civil defense” hysterias past, when our leaders warned us in apocalyptic tones to prepare for the worst. In the Eisenhower era, they advised us to keep at least a half tank of gas in our car at all times, so we could head off for God knows where when the missiles began to fall. At other times, they advised us to hole up in the basement, reciting nursery rhymes or the multiplication tables to keep calm. Men were told to wear wide-brimmed hats, and women long-sleeved blouses, to protect against the “heat flash” of an atomic blast or ward off radiation. As John F. Kennedy sparred with Nikita Khrushchev over Berlin in 1961, he proved his toughness by terrifying the nation with talk of an imminent atomic attack and urging everyone to build fallout shelters.
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An Open Letter to Mom and Dad
Dear Mom and Dad
Please don’t vote for Palin. As Harry Truman said, ‘if you want to live like a Republican, you have to vote Democrat’.
I love you,
your daughter
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First of all a pro-life catholic perspective.
Secondly, I will live the rest of my life as a middle-class minority woman. If you have to vote your conscience please vote for me to have a better life.
This is a persistent lie:
from the washington post:
Obama’s plan brings tax relief of over $1,000 to each person that makes $38-$66k.
You can compare the two candidates here:
McCain to Obama Tax Plan Comparison Chart
NY Times Candidate Comparison Chart
John McCain wants to win at any cost. You can read about it here:
John McCain <3 Mao: A lie repeated a hundred times becomes the truth
Video response to above article:
He’s a soldier, not a leader. His doggedness will leave us languishing in Iraq for a hundred years:
On Sept 15, 2008 while bloated wall street collapses in on itself he says:
Because he has said it a hundred times before:
John McCain won’t fight for you:
Listen to him forget he has 7 houses
He’s not the man he used to be:
INTERMISSION: Sarah Palin Special
What McCain didn’t know about Sarah
You Decide, ‘Sambo beat the bitch?’
Back to McCain : Lies don’t matter?
[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-cQ_lhk9nk
A tally of McCain’s lies to date
NY Times explores McCain’s ethics
When all else fails go to factcheck.org– a non partisan website keeping the candidates honest.
Character
John McCain’s temperament according to friends
and BTW Palin’s character, ethics, and hubris:
Palin’s humor:
she laughs with shock jocks calling a cancer victim a ‘bitch’:
Palin says her favorite writer is CS Lewis–essentially a children’s book writer that has been characterized as antisemitic. What is it that she reads?
For someone that cares about life, it depends on what kind of life. She doesn’t believe that global warming is man-made.
Don’t stop believing
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Mabuhay
The other day at the grocery store I said to K that I wanted to grab a bag of Bertolli’s frozen pasta dinner. K asked me if someone had recommended it to me and I answered ‘uh-huh, it was on Top Chef’.
It didn’t really matter that I didn’t listen to Palin’s speech given that her ‘pitbull with lipstick’ line has been on a loop on CNN, rendering her inescapable. She projects something naggingly familiar to me. Maybe it’s that she looks like Tina Fey; or maybe that her voice sounds like Frances McDormand in Fargo; or that she delivers her lines like she’s in Wedding Crashers trying to take down Vince Vaughn with a withering smirk. David Letterman’s astute observation that Palin’s photos looked like a LensCrafter’s ad was hysterical but also really disturbing. She is so familiar that I almost can’t even process what I think about her. On one hand you have Gloria Borger and Alex Castellanos endlessly debating whether or not it’s ok to refer to Palin as shrill and on the other hand you have the coquettish Governor diverting our attention from facts with flashy speeches and images of an American life that are stunningly foreign. It takes meditative mindfulness to watch the news these days and not have all the blood race to my head.
Being Asian American has never been an issue for me. If you asked me to list how I identify myself I would say Asian American before anything else. I grew up in a predominantly white suburb like most of my Asian American brothers and sisters but there was a very strong sub-community of Filipinos in my county. My parents were very social and active within this community. One year my dad was even the president of Tanglaw the local Filipino association. I grew up understanding and enjoying the two sides of myself– life with my non-Asian friends at school and then my Filipino family and friends at home. I naturally had alot of teen angst and went through difficult years trying to understand my place in the world but the one thing I embraced was that I was Filipino and American.
I think part of the anger and confusion that Sarah Palin brings up for me has to do with not having gone through the same process of understanding what it means to be a woman. I realize that being angry can’t be a lifestyle. And before coming to Hawaii I was angry most of the time. If not knowing much about Gov. Palin can be good for anything maybe it’s a good reminder that you can’t possibly hate anything you don’t know.
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For Life
I used to think that I was socially moderate—not liberal. Sometimes I even suspected that I had more of a tendency towards more conservative values. When Barack Obama emerged I supported him because he was different and I trusted him despite my distrustful nature and a general feeling of indifference towards politics.
I can thank Sarah Palin for giving me a shove into the next phase of my political maturation and helping me to realize definitively that what I am in my heart is liberal.
Contrary to what an Ohio Clinton Puma said on the floor of the RNC, I’m not a one issue voter. I’m not offended and appalled by Sarah Palin because I’m so narrow minded as to judge her on one issue. I’m an ALL issues voter. And in my opinion Sarah Palin upholds at least four major political beliefs and values on a scale that could have an impact on my life if she were to become Vice President of the United States—one malignant brown spot away from the presidency.
I was raised by Charismatic Catholic parents and taught that the road to salvation was non negotiable. When I was 12 I enrolled in a pro-life group through my church. At 17 I registered as a republican and in my first years of college my parents would pick me up in the city to make sure I came home to vote on one issue- abortion. As a side note I once hastily ran for president of my class and when asked what I stood for I said I was against the death penalty. So at least I was consistent: I cared for life.
Which is more than what I can say for most conservatives. Including this spectre of a modern hardworking woman, Gov. Sarah Palin.
I don’t understand women that believe that it should be law that other women ultimately have no choice over their own bodies. What is the difference of breaking through a glass ceiling if our bodies remain slaves to the overwhelmingly Old, White, Men who long to legislate this control. It’s more than heartbreaking that women who rise to power have to either shed all vestiges of being womanly on the outside or else in Sarah’s case on the inside. Her views are that of a man, and not a reasonable man but an insecure, angry, fearful man.
Sarah is:
Against abortion in all cases including rape and incest
She believes in capital punishment
She is against gun control
She is against educating youth on safe sex and
Supports creationism in schools.
I have yet to hear someone tell me why it is ok to fight for the life of a zygote but discard the life of a youth or adult that has violated laws that we ourselves created. Why?
I don’t know when life begins and I don’t know if hardened criminals are capable of rehabilitation. I do know that enforcing more and more laws and abandoning more people in the process of enforcing these laws is a road to the end of the world.
Maybe that’s where people like Sarah have their gaze fixed. Maybe it’s all about reaching judgment day as a righteous individual. Maybe they truly believe in a gate to Heaven where they can tally up who they saved and who they held accountable and at that glorious point be bestowed the rewards of Heaven. But then isn’t that just like the people who do it for their 72 virgins?
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